In a heartfelt interview with *Vanity Fair*, Selena Gomez opened up about her long-held desire to become a mother, revealing that she has had to come to terms with the fact that she cannot carry her own children. The 32-year-old singer, known for her recent hit “Single Soon,” shared that medical issues related to her lupus and bipolar disorder pose risks for both her and a baby.
“I unfortunately can’t carry my own children,” Gomez stated. “That was something I had to grieve.” However, she emphasized her optimism for the future, highlighting that surrogacy and adoption are viable options for her family plans. “I’m really thankful for the other outlets for people who are dying to be moms. I’m one of those people,” she said. “I’m excited for what that journey will look like, but it’ll look a little different.”
Despite the emotional challenges, an insider revealed that Gomez is determined to pursue motherhood. “Selena says she refuses to give up on being a mother one day,” the source noted, reinforcing her positive outlook.
Gomez’s boyfriend, Benny Blanco, has been a source of unwavering support throughout this journey. She has praised his love and understanding, stating, “I’ve never been loved this way.” The couple, who have been together for over a year, discussed these challenges openly from the beginning of their relationship. According to the insider, Blanco encouraged her to talk about her situation publicly, emphasizing that there’s no shame in it.
Rumors suggest that Gomez and Blanco are considering both adoption and surrogacy, with discussions about baby names already underway. “Selena and Benny have definitely talked about both adoption and surrogacy,” the insider revealed. “They might have even started at least one of the processes already.”
While Gomez has expressed a preference for a classic girl’s name, she humorously noted that she will let Benny choose a boy’s name—“within reason.”
Ultimately, Selena Gomez is committed to embracing whatever path leads her to motherhood. “At the end of the day, I don’t care,” she shared. “It’ll be my baby.” As she looks forward to this new chapter, her journey reflects resilience and hope, showcasing her unwavering desire to become a mother.
